傾聽女兒未説出的聲音 Hearing What Your Daughter Isn't Telling You

早晨上班的路上聽到電臺專訪 Susie Shellenberger，「傾聽女兒未説出的聲音」（Hearing What Your Daughter Isn't Telling You）的作者。這本書主要是談論如何與青少年期的女兒們溝通，以及如何以基督為核心地管教和帶領她們。在節目中他們説到了做母親的該如何增進和女兒的關係及了解，也建議做孩子的一些與母親溝通的方式。其中他們提到了一點，就是做父親的在女兒的成長過程中扮演了一個很重要的角色，女孩子們往往透過自己的父親來學習如何與異性正當地相處和接觸。最後她提到了母親與女兒可以相互立約，母親可以對女兒承諾五件事，可是聽到後來我只記得三件。。。

1。我會竭盡所能來成為妳的模範。我教導妳的事情，我自己一定也會做到。
2。無論在何種情況下，我是妳的安全網。舉例説明，妳可以隨時打電話給我要我去接妳即使妳作了錯誤的決定到了一個不該去的地方。
3。我會時時為妳禱告，也會常常與妳一同禱告。
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This morning on my way to work, I heard the radio station interviewing Susie Shellenberger, the author of the book "Hearing What Your Daughter Isn't Telling You". This book mainly teaches mothers about how to lead and guide teenage or pre-teen girls in a godly way, and how to communicate and understand them. In the program they mentioned about how a daughter can communicate to her mother if she has something to say, also, how to step into each other's territory and trying to understand each other. They talked about one thing very important, which is a father's role in a girl's life. They said that a father plays a very important part in teaching the girls what is appropriate male touch. Also sometimes the girls seek outside for supplement without sufficient care and love from a father. When that happens, it usually causes problems. At the end they talked about how mothers and daughters can make a covenant with each other. On the mother's side, they mentioned about 5 points but I can only remember 3...

1. I will try my best to be your role model. Whatever I teach you, I will follow it myself, too.
2. No matter in what circumstances, I am your safety net. For example, you can always call me and count on me to pick you up even though you made a wrong decision and ended up in a place where you are not supposed to be in.
3. I will always pray for you and pray with you.
4. ...
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